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Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters Daughter Poems - Poems about Daughters Daughter Poems Poem for My Daughter Poems about Daughters from Fathers and Mothers. Daughter-in-Law Poem Mother Daughter Poems Father Daughter Poems. Help Healing After Abortion I have been through the abortion healing group through a church I went to . we used the pace workbooks. I am interested in starting a group in my church now and would ... Goodbye Eczema! - Mother's Niche My first daughter was blessed with amazing skin. I NEVER put lotion on her as a baby and her skin was always beautiful and soft. My second baby seemed to get hit with ... When daughters grieve the death of their mothers Lisa ... A childhood death of a parent can be a devastating event. How the child grieves is extremely individual and based on the childs age when the parent died the cause ... How Narcissistic Mothers Break Their Children - Matt Forney This is a guest post by Eve Penman. Some time ago I saw one of Matt Forneys articles in my Twitter feed entitled 5 Reasons Why Girls with Tattoos and Piercings ... A Mother's Love and Hate for Her Addicted Son ... Hello Kathleen I am a mother of an addict and I am still praying for him. I am working on a website that is dedicated to mothers and family of addicts and my focus ... Mothers vs Daughters: Why Can't We Just Get Along - WebMD You love each other...yet one of you is always saying the wrong thing! How to improve the conversation-and the relationship. I sometimes think of my daughters as my ... Daughters of Unloving Mothers: 7 Common Wounds ... A lack of confidence and an inability to trust are just the beginning. In the years since I researched and wrote Mean Mothers Ive talked to women about our shared ... Books About NPD - daughters of narcissistic mothers Books About NPD For Daughters Of Narcissistic Mothers - a list of books recommended for daughters of narcissistic mothers Susan Forward Ph.D - Therapist Best Selling Author ... In her latest book Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters Susan Forward offers a powerful look at the devastating impact ... Rank: #6394 in BooksPublished on: 2014-10-21Released on: 2014-10-21Original language: EnglishNumber of items: 1Dimensions: 8.00" h x .68" w x 5.31" l, .0 pounds Binding: Paperback304 pages 455 of 464 people found the following review helpful.The Validation I neededBy CatherineI always seem to be a good candidate for Susan's books. I've read Emotional Blackmail, Toxic In-Laws, and I've already had the chance to skim over Toxic Parents. I was so impatient for this book: Mothers Who Can't Love to come out. How thoroughly relieving that someone dares to challenge the world's greatest taboo: Unloving Mothers. I was born to a woman who should have never been allowed to be a mother. Since cutting off my ties with my mother, I have been urged to reconcile and have been criticized with every line possible. I've heard the "she gave you life" and "honour thy mother". I've been told to try to understand her because of lack of education. I've been told to suck it up because everyone knew how she was. Susan lists all these cliches. The queen mother of all criticism and threats is: "I hope when you have kids, they will not do this to you." Susan understands how hard it is to come to terms with not having a loving mother and how it's even harder to defend your decision from the innumerable people who do not accept it.The first part of her book addresses the many faces of an unloving mother. Mine was the narcissistic mother. Sometimes she could be downright psychotic and abusive. For me however when you have been hit enough, it's only a sheer irritation that my mother thought she could scare me with a belt. Susan gave me such clarity and validation with this section. I was always so confused as to why my mother could occasionally be loving and why everything went down the drain when I found my soulmate. These kinds of mothers don't mind you as long as you do what she wants you to do, as long as she has control over you, and most of all-- as long as you don't become a woman. I no longer feel threatened when my relatives try to remind me of the good times I had with my mother. In a lot of ways, I was no more than a piece of property to her. I was deprived and pruned so that I could one day be given away like property then people would see how amazing and strict she was. Thus, she would gain other people's fear and respect. That was her ambition all along and it didn't sit well with her that I refused to be treated like a trophy. My world came crashing down when I realized her need for fear and respect from a bunch of faceless people meant more to her than my life and happiness. She had no qualms about trying to break me, thinking I would eventually capitulate. Like many unloving mothers, she wreaked havoc on my conscience. I felt horrible for not obeying her commands. I felt so guilty whenever she reminded me of all she did for me. Like many daughters of unloving mothers, you break in another way be it physical illness or in my case: depression.This book also made me aware of how every experience with an unloving mother will mold the way you go through life. I've been on the receiving end of my mother saying: "I wish you were never born" and "You should have died a long time ago"-- all in the same breath. However, her destruction did not start when I fell from grace. The tendency to feel responsible for other people's happiness, feeling guilty if you don't comply with other people's wishes, and chasing approval all steams from how your mother raised you. It was such a shock for me to read that love does not have to be earned. I still remember my bridesmaids' speech during my wedding. They called me loving. They said they loved me. I was speechless and felt that I didn't deserve it. Sure I love my husband but I never expected much of it back. How bizarre it was for me when he was always there for me and took care of me without a second thought. How bizarre it was for me when a friend pointed out that my husband loves me more than how other husbands love their wives.All of these scars and self-punishment were from the way my mother programmed me from birth. No, I will never have a loving mother but that is okay. The notion of the Loving Mother is bade farewell in Susan's book. I learned to say that it's okay. Moreover, I can be a loving mother to myself. And just because I never received the nurture I needed, it doesn't mean that I can't be a loving mother when I have children.Most importantly, my rights are spelled out. I no longer need to feel guilty. It was my right to live my life the way I wanted. It is MY choice whether I want to have my mother in my life. If I am ever urged or criticized again to have my mother in my life, that person will be on the receiving end of some very good non-defensive communication.111 of 113 people found the following review helpful.An honest look at bad mothersBy Oh, it's her.The concept that mothers are good people by virtue of pushing a baby out of her nether-regions is pervasive. I don't know how many times I've heard people say that my mother wouldn't act the way she does if only I'd been a good child, or that my mother loved me in her own way and I just didn't understand, or even that I could have had it worse because she didn't hit me as much as others.This book helped me realize that my mother's imperfections, projections, and most of all her abuse, were not my fault. I had already been on the path of healing but deep down I blamed myself for all of it.The author is completely honest about how toxic some relationships can be. What I find particularly important is that she doesn't force you to think that every relationship is salvageable, unlike some other therapists and authors. Sometimes they won't change, sometimes they won't learn, and sometimes they will continue to abuse even worse than before. She tells you that it's okay to let go, and that you don't have to sacrifice your own health to pretend that the cultural script of "Mother's always right" is, well, always right.142 of 145 people found the following review helpful.Mothers Who Can't LoveBy HaxieThis book is truly about SURVIVAL for those of us who grew up as a hostage in this kind of home life. Some reviewers have pinged this book for spelling/grammatical errors, and I concede that is true; however, the true meat of the book is in the insights and background that give a basis for beginning to understand someone who is otherwise not understandable, as well as pointing out which patterns are in fact abusive. Doesn't excuse what was done; just makes it less alien and gives hope for healing the damage. Even just RECOGNIZING that damage really did happen is huge; my experience was that the so-called "helping agencies" (the court system, counselors, authors of pop psych books, doctors, friends and family's perception) did NOT help, but in fact increased the damage by taking the easy way out and telling me it was "all in my head" and "she couldn't have done that." This book has had a huge impact on my life already, and I will undoubtedly re-read it many times. I cannot overstate how helpful this book has been to me.See all 182 customer reviews... Mothers vs Daughters: Why Can't We Just Get Along? - WebMD You love each other...yet one of you is always saying the wrong thing! How to improve the conversation-and the relationship. I sometimes think of my daughters as my ... Books About NPD - daughters of narcissistic mothers Books About NPD For Daughters Of Narcissistic Mothers - a list of books recommended for daughters of narcissistic mothers When daughters grieve the death of their mothers Lisa ... A childhood death of a parent can be a devastating event. How the child grieves is extremely individual and based on the childs age when the parent died the cause ... Daughters of Unloving Mothers: 7 Common Wounds ... A lack of confidence and an inability to trust are just the beginning. In the years since I researched and wrote Mean Mothers Ive talked to women about our shared ... A Mother's Love and Hate for Her Addicted Son ... Hello Kathleen I am a mother of an addict and I am still praying for him. I am working on a website that is dedicated to mothers and family of addicts and my focus ... Goodbye Eczema! - Mother's Niche My first daughter was blessed with amazing skin. I NEVER put lotion on her as a baby and her skin was always beautiful and soft. My second baby seemed to get hit with ... How Narcissistic Mothers Break Their Children - Matt Forney This is a guest post by Eve Penman. Some time ago I saw one of Matt Forneys articles in my Twitter feed entitled 5 Reasons Why Girls with Tattoos and Piercings ... Susan Forward Ph.D - Therapist Best Selling Author ... In her latest book Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters Susan Forward offers a powerful look at the devastating impact ... Help & Healing After Abortion I have been through the abortion healing group through a church I went to . we used the pace workbooks. I am interested in starting a group in my church now and would ... Daughter Poems - Poems about Daughters Daughter Poems Poem for My Daughter Poems about Daughters from Fathers and Mothers. Daughter-in-Law Poem Mother Daughter Poems Father Daughter Poems.
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